How to use the 333 rule to ease anxiety and calm your mind
Clinically reviewed by Dr. Chris Mosunic, PhD, RD, CDCES, MBA
Discover the 333 rule — a simple grounding technique to alleviate anxiety, help you regain control during overwhelming moments, and calm anxious thoughts.
Anxiety can be relentless for many people. It can often loom unexpectedly, bringing doubt, fear, and stress. Anxiety can turn some of the most everyday moments into mountains of worry. Fortunately, the 333 rule offers a straightforward yet highly effective tool to navigate anxiety, grounding you in the present moment and restoring your calm.
What is the 333 rule and how to use it for anxiety?
The 333 rule is a grounding technique designed to bring you back to the present when stress and anxiety overwhelm you. It’s made up of three straightforward steps designed to engage your senses and divert your focus from anxiety-inducing thoughts. It’s similar to the 5,4,3,2,1 technique but takes less time and therefore might provide ease from anxiety more quickly. The idea is to identify three things you can see, touch and hear
Identify 3 things you can see
First, look around you and name three objects you can see nearby. This helps you to connect with your immediate environment, redirecting your attention from any internal chaos to the external world so you’re more rooted in the present moment.
Identify 3 things you can touch
Next, notice three things you can feel or that you’re touching — the air on your skin, a cup of tea in your hands, or your clothing. Feel their texture, temperature, and shape. This helps ground your sense of touch, bringing your awareness into the present moment.
Identify 3 things you can hear
Finally, close your eyes and tune into the sounds around you. It could be the hum of the air conditioner, the ticking of the clock, or perhaps distant traffic noises. Engage your auditory senses to align your focus with the present.
How does the 333 rule calm anxiety?
The 333 rule can act as a mental anchor, helping to ground your swirling thoughts and emotions, pulling you back to the present moment. It’s like a gentle hand guiding you from stress and worry and leading you back to tranquility and clarity.
Offers immediate relief
The simplicity of the 333 rule brings immediate comfort. It can redirect the focus away from overwhelming feelings and thoughts so you can center yourself in the now. This immediate grounding can provide relief from anxiety attacks and help you regain control over your emotions and thoughts.
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Helps to develop mindfulness and presence
Practicing the 333 rule can bring mindfulness and presence to your state of mind. By routinely engaging your senses and grounding yourself in your surroundings, you cultivate increased awareness and connection to the present moment. It can teach you to pause, observe, and just ‘be’ in the now, allowing you to witness life as it unfolds around you without being swept away by anxiety.
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Helps to restore emotional equilibrium
This 333 rule can help break the cycle of anxious thoughts, bringing a sense of balance and calm to restore your emotional equilibrium. It can help you find peace, stability, and harmony amidst stress and worry.
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Enhances self-awareness and resilience
Regularly implementing the 333 rule can help you identify and understand the triggers and patterns of anxiety, developing increased self-awareness and insight. Regular practice allows you to manage anxiety with increased resilience and enhance your coping skills.
Remember, the 333 rule is not just a temporary fix but a step towards self-growth, mindfulness, and enhanced emotional wellbeing.
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Other coping mechanisms to help reduce anxiety
Everyone’s journey with anxiety is unique, and exploring various coping strategies can help you discover what soothes you the most effectively.
Meditation: Meditation offers a way to disconnect from the external chaos and connect with your inner peace. Our Overcome Stress and Anxiety meditation can guide you through this journey, helping you find calm.
Deep breathing: Deep and/or mindful breathing calms anxiety and stress. Try our Breathe Bubble to help you find your breath’s rhythm, syncing you with the present moment.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1 technique: The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 technique is a sensory way to ground your mind, helping you explore and connect with the now.
Progressive muscle relaxation: This simple exercise can release stored tension, melting away stress and anxiety to allow relaxation to flow through you.
Regular exercise: Engaging in physical activity can release chemicals that enhance your mood and wellbeing.
Aromatherapy: Immerse your senses in the world of aromatic tranquility, where each scent can bring you peace and relaxation.
Mindfulness: Mindfulness is the art of being. It’s a way to live in the moment, observe, and experience without judgment. Mindfulness helps you cultivate your awareness to create presence and connection.
333 rule for anxiety FAQs
What is the 555 rule for anxiety?
The 555 rule is a simple breathing technique where you breathe in for 5 seconds, hold that breath for 5 seconds, and then exhale for another 5 seconds. It’s like giving your mind and body a gentle reset, a moment of pause in the hectic rhythm of life so that you can bring clarity and tranquility back into focus.
What is the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 rule for anxiety?
This is another grounding technique for anxiety, acting like a gentle anchor to the present moment. Identify 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. The 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 rule is a sensory journey to help ground your mind in the here and now, steering it away from overwhelming thoughts and emotions and back to presence and awareness.
What are 3 coping strategies for anxiety?
Strategies like practicing mindfulness, exploring meditation, and engaging in deep breathing exercises help you cope with anxiety. They can help you bring yourself back to mental and emotional equilibrium.
What is the most effective intervention for anxiety?
The most effective intervention is about exploring various techniques and support systems and seeing what works for you. This could be a combination of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), medication, lifestyle adjustments, meditation, mindfulness, and relaxation techniques.
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