The benefits of silence and how to create a quiet time ritual

Clinically reviewed by Dr. Chris Mosunic, PhD, RD, CDCES, MBA

Learn about the power and benefits of silence, including how it boosts your mental health. Plus, create your own quiet time ritual with our easy steps.

It’s easy to run on autopilot when we get busy, and as a result we often forget to check in with ourselves throughout the day. If we don’t take some time every day to interrupt the busyness and focus on our wellbeing, we may be headed towards burnout

Meditation is one excellent way to create an intentional pause in your day. But if that’s not your thing, that’s okay! There are plenty of other mindful ways to pause and experience inner peace, no experience required.

 

How does quiet time support your wellbeing? 5 benefits of silence 

Silence isn't just about being away from noise and other stimuli. It's about giving yourself the space to grow, think, and breathe. Make quiet time a regular part of your day, and experience for yourself the many benefits it can bring.

1. Quiet time can help reduce stress 

Turn down the noise, and you’re more likely to be able to turn down the stress. When you're in a quiet place, your body is better able to relax. Your brain has a chance to stop being in overdrive, and you may feel the tension slip away. Next time you find yourself getting stressed, take a step back from the noise and let yourself unwind.

2. Quiet time can help improve mental clarity 

Clear your mind with quiet time. Without all the distractions, it can be easier to concentrate. Think of it as giving your brain a little vacation, so that when it's time to work again, you can show up with more energy and clarity.

3. Quiet time can help enhance creativity 

Quiet moments can spark your best ideas. When it's silent, your mind can wander and dream up all sorts of creative things. It's like planting a seed in a garden, nurturing it, and watching it grow.

4. Quiet time can help emotional regulation 

Silence gives you a chance to catch your breath and understand your feelings. It lets you press pause on a busy day and check in with yourself. This can help you feel more balanced and in control of your emotions.

5. Quiet time can help increase self-awareness 

It’s possible to learn more about yourself in the quiet moments. Listening to your thoughts when the world goes silent can help you get to know who you really are, leading to insights about yourself and your place in the world.

5 ways to find time for silence

We all lead busy lives, but finding time for silence is essential for our wellbeing. The aim isn't to embark on a journey of isolation. It's about embracing alone time and finding pockets of peace in your day. 

These moments of silence are your time to recharge and reconnect with yourself, and with these five practical tips, you can help carve out quiet moments that can refresh your day and change your life. 

1. Build silence into your schedule

Treat quiet time like an important meeting by adding it to your calendar. Even a few minutes can make a big difference. Whether it's during your morning coffee or right before bed, find a time in your daily routine for a little bit of quiet time that works for you, and stick to it.

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2. Create a quiet space at home

Designate a spot in your home as your sanctuary. This could be a comfy chair by the window or a cozy corner  with your favorite blanket and book. When you're in this space, make a pact with yourself that it’s your place for peace and quiet, free of noise and distractions.

3. Set boundaries with others

Let the people you live with know that you need some undisturbed time. It's not about being alone all the time. It's about having a few precious moments of silence. A simple conversation about boundaries can go a long way in helping others understand and respect your need for quiet.

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4. Incorporate silence into your meditation practice

Use silence as a backdrop for meditation and grounding exercises. Focus on your breath or the sensations in your body to anchor yourself in the present moment.

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5. Adapt the practice to your lifestyle

Make your quiet time practice realistic. If you have a hectic schedule, start small. Even a minute of stillness before you start your day  or after you turn off your computer can have a positive impact.

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Examples of quiet time rituals

Quiet time rituals can vary greatly, but they all share a common goal: providing you with a peaceful break from the hustle and bustle. Embracing the power of silence can lead to improved mental health, reduced blood pressure, enhanced self-awareness, and a sense of inner peace

Use these examples as inspiration to come up with your own quiet time rituals. Keep exploring until you find what brings you comfort and peace. 

  • Set an intention: Before the day begins, take a few deep breaths in silence and set an intention for the day.

  • Embrace natural silence: Immerse yourself in the natural silence of a park or garden, focusing on the present moment.

  • Read fiction: Curl up on the sofa and read a good fiction book. Reading fiction has been shown to increase empathy and emotional intelligence.

  • Self-reflection: At the end of the day, reflect on what you're grateful for in the quiet of your space. You can also implement a gratitude journal practice.

  • Get rest: Go to bed early and incorporate calming stretches or bedtime yoga.


Calm your mind. Change your life.

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